Add setting for RTP socket buffer size

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Reported that increasing RTP socket buffer size can significantly reduce packet loss rate, especially on video streaming.

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In 4538:

Close #1681:

• Added compile-time settings PJMEDIA_TRANSPORT_SO_RCVBUF_SIZE and PJMEDIA_TRANSPORT_SO_SNDBUF_SIZE. The default values are both 64 KB when PJMEDIA_HAS_VIDEO is set, otherwise just zero (socket buffer size uses OS default). The settings will be applied to media transport UDP and ICE.
• Also added run-time settings so_sndbuf_size and so_rcvbuf_size into ICE stream transport, STUN socket, and TURN socket. Default values are all zero.